My boyfriend is borderline. On this new year night he bit me ,he slapped my face,pulled my hair,it was an animal not a human being.yes, I told him unpleasant things,because without any reason he was provoking me for a fight,I felt disappointed,I did not understand why is he treating me this way,so after i have told him what i really think about him he went out of control,I think it′s borderline,he is sick..is there any future with this man?(probably there is,if I treat him as a sick person)
Hi, I'm sorry to read that you had such a bad start to a New Year . Are you sure that you would want to begin a New Year with this animal? Because that is what he is. An animal. Animals bite.
You are in your own right a human being of whom would probably crave to be loved, adored, cared for and be shown consideration and affection. Even if he did have a Borderline personality disorder,would you be willing to be treated in this disgusting way? Please do not make excuses for him for the fact that you feel humiliated for the way he treated you.
New Year new start. Ditch him fast and make way for some guy to come into your life and give you the love and affection you deserve and crave. As for the moron who beat you he needs to first recognise that he has a problem on beating up women and take the first giant step in going to get help for his problem. As for you dump him and look forward to a future without him. If you would to stay with him then one day he could kill you, as so many have been due to domestic violence.
Happy New year and good luck to the future. Please take care. x
No future.... get rid of him.....
I think you should run and never look back. This has trouble written all over it. Get out before it’s to late!
He is dangerous. Get away from him. And get a restraining order. And maybe a gun.
You have to be realistic about it and ask yourself deep down whether you want to live with this for the rest of your life.
Talk to some of the older female relatives in your family, and see what they say and know. They will somewhere along the line have known a friend or person in an abusive relationship and how it affects the person concerned.
It is so easy to be sucked into an abusive relationship and to be dragged down by it.
Be very aware that whatever he may choose to tell you it will not stop and it will get worse!
okay wait, did he tell you he was borderline or are you diagnosing him as. You said you think. You should really wait until things have calmed down and confront him about his behavior. Don't attach a condition to him, especially when your unclear yourself about all of the facts. That sounds pretty random, and borderline disorder is more commonly found in girls then boys, there have been very few cases of it with men.
look... it would be very wrong to just run away. the first thing you need to do is to find out if he is sick for sure... he lborderline boyfriendoves you, but he can't control what he is doing - because he's probably sick. he is just as much a victim as him. and looking upon him as a sick person would only make things worse. he would be very hurt, and become provoked, which could cause him to do bad stuff to you or himself. what you need to do is be open about it bucause if you are not things are not gonna work out! talk about it. gt to ''know'' him - his illness, so you know when to back off.
Someone who picks a fight for no reason and then can't handle it when you stand your ground could be borderline. They have arrested emotional development and lash out. They especially don't want to be told they need help. Unless you're a professional you CANNOT help him. Run away as far and as fast as you can and save yourself a lot of heartache.
what is paramount is to choose your healing route------ carefully-- be really aware that the druggs/meds treatment for this can be horrendous and you can go on for years with no improvement and massive damaging detrimental side effects from meds . Do read this very carefully and try and understand the principles behind what is being said .
Evaluate all of this info well –this info will save you years of suffering ---years if you apply it ..
All treatment recommended by the doctors should be tested and approved and quite rightly so.
That makes sense right .it costs millions to test and approve treatments because of the possible damage to people..
Drug companies Fund most research and will only and I mean only look at treatments, which show the promise of good deal of a profit, --they will actively dismiss any therapy which does not have profit potential— thus your doctor will only recommend therapies with profit potential in them.
Despite The fact that some of these other therapies mentioned do have overwhelming benefits some, which have saved needless amputations, needless pain and trauma, and much loss of life. Drugs are not the answer for depression with mind altering chemicals or any other mental illness. This is a fundamental principle and unless you grasp this fully –you could /will have years of suffering ahead of you .
This does not help you though when you are ill and suffering—not hearing about therapies which can help from a person you look up to and trust Have you heard your local doctor recommend, Massage Spiritual healing, Herbs, Light therapy,Colour therapy,the violet ray therapy, Osteopathy, Electrical Frequency devices.
These therapies will work for many complaints of a so called mental nature
we have thousands of testimonials and results showing years of successful applications
Do this and I will guarantee improvements to you inside a day its that simple, of course getting these things in place can be much harder. Each therapy can have a very beneficial influence on you.
Print this all off save it and borderline boyfriendenact it and share it --- of course someone to help you get these therapies in your life is invaluable but do not be swayed by them trying for short cuts ….
1,get someone to massage your back and legs at least 3 times a week use peanut oil or a mix of 50-50 olive and peanut oil.
2 use the violet ray machine an Edgar Cayce device google search this --- 3 times a week on the other days especially on the spine….we use it every day with very positive results
3.get a tent sleep out side 3times a week utilising earth energy - nature can help big time especially with how you feel how much energy you have
4 study and apply good nutrition-- adequate minerals all of them particularly calcium and magnesium iron essential fatty acids omega 3 6 9 protein etc
5 ensure your thyroid is working well
7 ensure you do at least I hr per day some kind of voluntary work when you are able..the reasons you are ill , or poor or have allsorts of bad things happen to you is because of karma -----usually from past lives but some from this one –voluntary work will offset your mistakes--- how much it offsets well that is down to god and how much you do. Healing us is in direct proportion to the help we give others ie your healing comes with helping others achieve theirs so if people are doing very little in helping others ---they suffer more and longer...and if they are doing a lot they get well faster....so now you know what to do ,,and like a lot of us are already doing being of service.
8 be amongst people who are giving, friendly who have time for you who love you , choose your friends well
9 be or get to a place which personally love or like
10 get and do some work which you like or love
11 ensure you do no acts which hurt or inflict on anyone –don’t want to add to your karma do we !!!
12 spiritual healing yes and reiki -.
13think good positive thoughts, laughter, look at comedy, play good uplifting music,
14 avoid at all costs exposure to violence, murders, suffering ,death ,tragedies, -feed upon good things uplifting things, things that feel like a breath of fresh air..
15 Positive affirmation- that’s right programme your self in the mirror , thoughts are things words are things actions are things , all have influence, few people realise these things can have an effect on themselves .
16 a detox ------ toxins can influence how you feel big time
17 hugs get plenty of them in your daily life you would be amazed at how people feel after a few decent hugs….
18 loads of exercise running walking climbing but something which you enjoy
19 rid yourselves of all aspartame laden foods and drink and many additives get back to a wholesome organic diet diet
A total cure however is tied up with karma so you can imagine just how important is the voluntary work.
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